Kaizen Chaos

When exiting a relationship and coming to terms with its mortality, do we romanticize the past, grossly overstating the true value of the relationship as a whole?
This is not to say my marriage wasn’t wonderful at times; yet I’m hard pressed to find very many solid examples. I read my past blogs and am almost disgusted that […]

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So I was going to copy and paste a blog I wrote about 6 years ago, right about the time I started seeing “Mr. Ex”. Unfortunately I haven’t accessed that site for several years so it is now gone.
Anyhow, it was quite the cynical discussion on traditional marriage and how I didn’t believe […]

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There once was a time I thought I may have burned some bridges with one of my best friends for the sake of my marriage and being what I thought was a “good wife” in lieu of being a “good friend.” You know what? When my marriage began to crumble she was the first one waiting […]

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Though I’ve pretty much come to terms with the undeniable fate of my failing marriage I was still a little stunned when someone said “You know, this could be all over in a couple months.” Huh. How do you like that?
I pictured myself there flipping through to the back page of some legal form searching […]

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So I finally got motivated a little bit this weekend and started cleaning, organizing and packing. I’ve decided it’s not doing me any good dragging my feet waiting for a non-existent breakthrough from “Mr. Ex”. It’s just not going to happen. And if it did it still wouldn’t be good enough. I’m sure he still […]

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